It is probably no surprise to you that a major conflict exists over equal rights and protections for gays and lesbians, including
giving same-sex couples the right to marry.
It has surpassed in importance even the conflict over abortion
access in the minds of many North Americans. Even within a single religion,
like Christianity, we see a lack of consensus over homosexuality.
Religious conservatives generally regard homosexual behavior by any two
persons as profoundly immoral regardless of the nature of their
relationship.
Religious liberals generally regard any inequality in human rights based
on sexual orientation to be profoundly immoral.
Groups of religious moderates tend to be split between the conservative
and liberal viewpoints.
Most web sites promote a single viewpoint -- typically that of the webmaster
or the sponsoring group. We do not.
Rather:
We explain the six most common viewpoints
that people have about the nature of homosexuality. We recommend that you read this series of essays in order to understand the full range of beliefs in
North America.
As in most of the topics covered in this web site, we compare and
contrast the most common
conservative and liberal viewpoints:
A common belief among the most conservative faction is
that homosexuality is a behavior -- something that one does. It
is a chosen lifestyle which is abnormal, unnatural, and changeable. It
is hated by
God. It is a mental disorder and/or an addiction. It typically starts during
teenage years when a
post-pubertal youth decides to become gay or lesbian. The root cause is
molestation or poor parenting during the person's childhood.
A common belief among the most liberal faction is that homosexuality
is a
sexual orientation -- something that one is. It is an unchosen orientation which is normal and natural for a minority of adults.
It is always or almost always fixed. It is accepted by God. It is neither a mental disorder or an addiction.
Although individuals differ, many believe that a there is a genetic predisposition towards homosexuality, which
may or not be
triggered in young children by some unknown element in the environment.
The two most vocal groups:
These are naturally at the extremes of the conflict:
Very conservative Christians, Jews, Muslims, Sikhs etc. supported by members of the National Association
for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH):Most
of this small professional group prefer to continue the current restrictions against gays, lesbians, bisexuals -- including
prohibition of same-sex marriage. Some advocate the restoration
of laws which once criminalized same-sex behavior. Most oppose the
extension of existing hate-crime laws to include sexual orientation.
A number of groups, consisting of most gays, lesbians, bisexuals and their friends and
families of origin, religious liberals, mental health
professionals and their associations, civil libertarians, human sexuality researchers, etc. They tend to favor equal
rights and protections for persons of all sexual orientations, including the right to
marry, with special rights for
none.
People love to portray conflicts in terms of two options: the weather is
either too cold or too hot; one is either a Democrat or Republican; people are
either heterosexual or homosexual, etc. But sometimes, life is not that simple.
We have found not two but six major belief systems about
homosexuality. Most heterosexuals in North America probably hold one of the
four intermediate viewpoints.
Being heterosexual, most probably feel
uncomfortable with the idea of homosexual behavior.
They may regard same-sex behavior as intrinsically sinful, no matter
what the nature of the relationship.
They may respect and love the person even though they reject their
behavior. They may believe that God feels that same way.
Most adults in the U.S. reject the concept of same-sex marriage; most Canadian
adults
accept marriage for all loving committed couples -- including same-sex couples
-- as a civil right.
Many favor allowing same-sex couples to enter into civil unions or
domestic partnerships with some or all of the traditional benefits of
marriage.
A large majority would like to see gays, lesbians, and bisexuals -- in fact, persons of all sexual orientations
-- protected from abuse, firing, discrimination in accommodation, hate crimes, etc.
Trends:
A massive gap in beliefs exists between America's youth and elderly. Older
teens and young adults, who are not religious conservatives, have generally accepted homosexuality as a normal
and natural sexual minority. They are far more likely to have one or more gays or
lesbians among their circle of friends. They are much more supportive of sexual
minorities than
are their
parents.
Geographical scope:
The essays in this section relate mainly to the American scene. However, we have
included many essays about homosexual rights in Canada, because about 5% of our website's visitors are from that country, and because events in
Canada may indicate the direction that U.S. society will take in the future.
There are occasional references to countries outside of North
America, like Holland and Belgium which were the first jurisdictions to legalize same-sex marriages.