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Inter-faith marriages a.k.a. mixed,
mixed-faith, or inter-religious marriages

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Quotes about inter-faith marriages and families:

bullet"A [born-again conservative Christian] believer marrying or intending to marry an unbeliever is clearly going against the expressed commandment of God." J.J. Lim
 
bullet"...unity within diversity adds a richness and beauty to marriage and to life." Rev. Tom Chulak, Unitarian-Universalist minister.
 
bullet"More and more interfaith couples are opting to forge their own paths in the spiritual realm by combining aspects of both religions rather than relying on the strict guidelines promoted by either organized religion. And while many religious leaders turn their backs on such decisions, who are they to put limits on God?" Jill Critchley, a Christian engaged to a Jew.
 
bullet"I have two religions, but mommie and daddy have one [each]. Mommie has Jesus and daddy has JewIsh."  Claire, aged about 4, from the movie "Mixed Blessings."
bulletThe arrival of a baby forces parents to confront their religious legacies, to reconsider decisions made long ago and to revisit the spiritual dilemmas of their own youth." Gabrielle Glaser.

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Overview:

An inter-faith marriage is a union in which the two spouses follow different religious traditions. This can take many forms. For example, the partners may be:

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A member of a specific religion and a follower of an non-theistic ethical system (e.g. Judaism and Humanism).

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From two religions that are totally different - as in one Western and one Eastern faith (e.g. Christianity and Taoism).

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From two religions that have some points of similarity - as in two Abrahamic religions. These are religions "of the Book" which share Abraham as a Patriarch. (e.g. Christianity and Islam).

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From different major divisions within the same religion (e.g. Roman Catholicism and Protestantism).

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From different wings within the same religion (e.g. one Evangelical and one liberal or mainline Christian)

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From different traditions within the same wing of the same religion (e.g. two conservative denominations: Assemblies of God and Southern Baptist.

All marriages and other lifetime partnerships are mixed relationships! Most involve persons of two genders: one man and one woman. Sometimes the two spouses are of different religions, nationalities, races, ethnic groups, economic levels, etc. The more significant differences in background that a couple has, the greater are the challenges that need to be resolved before and during marriage. Sometimes their efforts to reach a consensus can draw the couple closer together. With other couples, their differences will drive them apart.

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Some definitions:

bulletMarriages between persons of different religions are called: inter-faith, interfaith, mixed, mixed-faith, inter-religious marriages. We will use the term "inter-faith" in this series of essays.
bulletMarriages between persons who follow different traditions within the same religion: inter-church, two-church, interchristian, cross-community, inter-denominational, intra-faith or ecumenical marriage. We will use the term "intra-faith."

We will use the term "marriage" inclusively throughout this series of essays to refer to all permanent, committed, cohabiting relationships, whether they are the result of religious marriages, civil marriages, union ceremonies, or "common law" or "living together" relationships.

Problems that arise in intra-faith marriages are not necessarily less severe than among inter-faith marriages. A liberal Christian and a conservative Christian couple will generally find that they differ on almost all religious matters; a liberal Jew and liberal Christian will see eye-to-eye on many religious beliefs.

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Topics covered:

bulletWhat the Bible says about inter-faith marriages
 
bulletPolicies of different religions and faith groups
 
bulletFacts about inter-faith marriages
 
bulletDivorce rates among mixed marriages
 
bulletHow couples handle their religious differences
 
bulletSpecific problems arising in inter-faith marriages  
 
bulletBooks and a movie about inter-faith marriage
 
bulletLinks to Internet websites

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Copyright © 1999 to 2007 by Ontario Consultants on Religious Tolerance
Originally published: 1999-MAR-16
Author: B.A. Robinson

Last update: 2007-NOV-19

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