Bisexuality: Part 1: Quotations. Definitions of bisexuality terms as used by various groups.
"Being bisexual doubles your chance of a date on Saturday
night." Woody Allen. 1
"A homosexual or bisexual individual may experience conflict
with a homophobic society; however, such conflict is not a symptom of
dysfunction in the individual. The APA Board recognized that a
significant portion of homosexual and bisexual people were clearly
satisfied with their sexual orientation and showed no signs of
psychopathology." "Fact Sheet, Homosexual and Bisexual Issues,"
American Psychiatric Association. 2
"Bisexual by definition means promiscuous, having
relations with both male and female. We are going to give that a Federal
preferred protected status under this legislation. I think that is a serious
Senator Don Nickles (R-OK). 3 (We would like to nominate this quote for the "most pathetically misinformed statement about sexual orientation." However there does not seem to be such a contest. There should be!)
"When it comes to marriage, a bisexual may end up with a partner of either gender. If a [bisexual] woman marries a man it does not mean that she is straight, and by the same token, by marrying a woman, will not make her gay. The person that they marry will be the one they are in love with as a person, and may or may not have anything to do with the person’s gender." "Genevieve." 4
Alexander the Great, Hans Christian Andersen, Drew Barrymore, David Bowie, Montgomery Clift, Joan Crawford, Sammy Davis, Jr., James Dean, Lady Gaga, Greta Garbo, Cary Grant, Alex Guinness, Anne Heche, Angelina Jolie, Herman Melville, Nero, Cole Porter, Anna Nichole Smith, Amy Winehouse, Virginia Wolf. Twenty of 51 famous bisexuals listed by Thinksquad. 4
Definitions of terms:
Unfortunately, there is no consensus on the precise meaning of terms like lesbian, gay, bisexual, homosexuality, bisexuality and heterosexuality. Some define them in terms of :
feelings: the gender to whom a person is sexually attracted; or
behavior: the gender with whom one is sexually active; or
identity: how a person identifies their sexual identity; or
some combination of the above.
Some different definitions involving bisexuality are listed below.
1. Definitions used by most therapists, the LGBT community, secularists, religious progressives, etc:
Most people use the term "sexual orientation" to refer to sexual feelings. Heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual is a part of what people are. Thus, bisexuality is sexual
orientation in which an individual feels sexual attraction towards both men and women, although not necessarily to the same degree. This is the meaning given to bisexuality by most mental health professionals, religious liberals, secularists, LGBT (lesbians, gays, bisexuals and transgender persons), and some members of mainline religions. These feelings -- their orientation -- motivate their sexual behaviors, if they decide to abandon celibacy and become sexually active. However, celibate bisexuals are still bisexuals.
2. Definition used by most religious conservatives:
Individual fundamentalists and other evangelicals, along with their faith groups and para-church organizations, often assign
different meanings and definitions to many religious and human sexuality
terms. This makes dialogue and debate very difficult.
refer to heterosexuality, homosexuality and
bisexuality in terms of people's behavior. Thus, bisexuality becomes what they call a
"lifestyle" in which an individual actively engages in sexual behavior
with both men and women.
Others ignore the term bisexual and define people as either homosexual or heterosexual depending upon whether they are sexually active with persons of the same sex or not.
Defining bisexuality in terms of behavior may be a logical consequence of certain biblical passages, which refer to behaviors rather than feelings. Since the Bible was written by authors in a pre-scientific age, they had no understanding or term for sexual orientation; they only discussed sexual behavior.
A second reason for their fondness of defining bisexuality in terms of behavior is that it strengthens their case for reparative therapy and transformational ministries. These are two techniques that attempt to "cure" homosexuality and bisexuality. Many of their success stories are actually bisexuals
who have made a conscious decision to remaine celibate or to confine
relationships only to persons of the opposite gender. The main message
of their advertisements, that persons with a homosexual orientation can change their orientation to heterosexual, is
probably impossible for anyone to achieve, or
Most conservative Christians rarely refer to bisexuality; they typically deal with only
two forms of behavior: homosexuality and heterosexuality. Those who do use the term regard a
Who has decided to become celibate to be a person who has left the "gay
lifestyle," and become an "ex-gay."
Who has decided to be sexually active only with person(s) of the same
gender to be a homosexual.
Who has decided to be sexually active in the future only with
person(s) of the
opposite gender to be a homosexual who has left the "gay
3. The American Family Association's definition:
The AFA is one of the most active anti-LGBT Christian groups in the U.S. The Southern Poverty Law Center -- an anti-hate organization -- decided to list the AFA as a hate group because of their:
"... propagation of known falsehoods -- claims about LGBT people that have been thoroughly discredited by scientific authorities -- and repeated, groundless name-calling." 5
The three universally accepted sexual orientations: heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality.
Two gender identities transexualism, and being transgender. These are rare conditions affecting about 0.6% of the adult population that are often described as having a female brain in a male body, or vice versa. However, some transgender individuals identify with both genders and no genders.
About two dozen or more paraphilias. These are "a family of persistent, intense fantasies, aberrant urges, or behaviors ..." involving human sexuality.
Some additional behaviors like incest, prostitution, etc.
They then referred to the entire group of over 30 sexual behaviors as sexual orientations. This definition was very useful during the Congressional debate on hate-crimes legislation because the bill's author did not define "'sexual orientation" within the bill. The author presumably believed that everyone knew that sexual orientation referred to heterosexuality, bisexuality and homosexuality. By redefining the term to refer to so many sexual behaviors, the AFA could claim that the federal hate crime bill would protect men who sexually abused children, had sex with animals, who committed incest, etc. The bill became known in some circles as the "pedophile protection bill." In spite of their efforts, the bill passed and people who physically attack victims on the basis of their target's sexual orientation, gender identity, gender, disability, religion, etc. can be found guilty of hate crimes and given enhanced sentences.
Some additional definitions in common usage:
To further complicate matters their are additional meanings given to "bisexual:"
Some restrict the term bisexual to a person who not only has feelings
of attraction to both men and women, but for whom "bisexuality
is [also] an important part of their experience or identity."
Others define bisexuality as either feelings of sexual
attraction, or sexual behavior towards, both men and women.
According to the Soc.bi newsgroup, some suggest "that
the word 'bisexual' should be limited to describing behavior, and the
word 'bi' could be used for describing identity." This terminology does not seem to have been widely used.
Some, probably most, persons who are sexually attracted to both men and women
feel more strongly attracted to one gender than the other. Further, they may
identify themselves as homosexual or heterosexual, rather than bisexual, depending upon their
main attraction. So, a bisexual who feels more attracted to members of
the same sex might identify themselves as gay or lesbian rather than
bisexual. Others, attracted more to members of the opposite sex might view
and identify themselves as heterosexual.
W.H. Masters and V.E. Johnson used the
term "ambisexual" in their books Human Sexual Response and Homosexuality in Perspective, to refer to a person who is
sexually attracted to both men and women to the same degree. The term
does not seem to be commonly used. Most persons with equal feelings of
attraction are referred to as bisexual.
kinseyIn an attempt to codify sexual attraction for the two genders, human
sexuality researcher Alfred Kinsey developed a seven level rating scale in
which "0" meant purely heterosexual and "6" meant purely homosexual. The
vast majority of adults rate themselves as a "0." A gay and lesbian
with no feelings of attraction to the opposite sex would identify themselves as a "6". A small minority are bisexual (ratings 1 to 5). Of these, only a very small minority
are attracted to both men and women equally and would identify themselves with
a "3" rating. 7