Ellory F. Schempp, was the plaintiff in the case Abington
v. Schempp. The case made it to the U.S. Supreme Court who declared
in 1963 that Bible devotions in U.S. public school are unconstitutional.
He suggests nine commandments:
You are a human, and neither Jesus, nor Mohammed, nor Buddha
speaks for you. Take courage—you can live without a god.
Do not injure human beings or any animal; make reasonable
exceptions.
When you see evil, make sure it is not in a mirror. Sometimes
the enemy is us. Emotions are part of life. Feelings are good. Angry
and fearful feelings are valid, but be circumspect.
Morality is about how you treat the life that has been given
you—before you got asked. Once here, try to do some good and leave
us a little better than when you arrived. There is no second chance.
Ideas are good. Some ideas are better than others. The best way
to winnow is to seek evidence that supports an idea in a way that
can be tested and evaluated. Covet not ancient ideas that contradict
new evidence.
Love one another. Love is good, but trying. There is no god nor
parent nor partner that loves you all the time, unconditionally.
Keep not fantasies in your minds. Accept reality. Even when things
look dark, there is lots of love around. Tap into it.
Sex is good. Have fun. Do not hurt another out of selfishness.
Do not worry what sex others might have.
Honor thy parents, but remember they put their pants on one leg
at a time.
There is great beauty in the world—on this Earth, in music, in
the life around us. Take note for it and you shall be richly
rewarded. 1
Anonymous: A series of nineteen "instructions for life"
are found throughout the Internet and are generally attributed to the
14th Dalai Lama Tenzin Gyatso, exiled head of state and spiritual leader
of the Tibetan people. The Dalai Lama actually had nothing to do with the list. The nineteen
instructions:
"...are a truncated version of a much longer list [of 45
instructions] that worked its way around the Internet in 1999 in
conjunction with an ASCII art representation of a 'Nepalese Good
Luck Tantra Totem' (the list was also sometimes identified as
being a 'modern Japanese good luck tantra'):
Take into account that great love and great achievements involve
great risk.
When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
Follow the three Rs:
Respect for self,
Respect for others, and
Responsibility for all your actions.
Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful
stroke of luck.
Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to
correct it.
Spend some time alone every day.
Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think
back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your
life.
In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current
situation. Don't bring up the past.
Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.
Be gentle with the earth.
Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.
Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love
for each other exceeds your need for each other.
Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get
it.
Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon. 2
"Four of the original ten commandments serve no other purpose
than to stroke the ego of El, a local tribal god of a small Hebrew tribe
from centuries past. Other commandments are either too weak, too strong,
or too vague. [My] Ten Rational Commandments is the first 'serious'
attempt in thousands of years to update this primitive guide for human
conduct."
She rewords some of the original Ten Commandments, and adds some others, like:
"Thou shalt respect the right of others to have opinions,
ideas, and thoughts that are at odds with your own."
"Thou shalt keep thy beliefs private , not seeking to
convert others, or force thy beliefs on any other, including your
own children." 3
Wiccans follow the Wiccan Rede: "A'in it harm
no one, do what thou wilt." That is, one is free to do whatever one wishes,
as long as it does not harm anyone, including themselves. Most believe in the
Three-fold Law -- that any evil or good one does towards others will return with
three times the intensity to the initiator. These two taken together make it
unlikely that a Wiccan will be tempted to hurt others.
The United Communities of Spirit is a global interfaith network,
"linking people of diverse faiths and beliefs who want to work with
others to build a better world." They produced an initial
sketch of principles which will be shaped and refined in the future through
dialogue. Their "Philosophy of Network Community" discusses
aspects of inclusivity, diversity, dialogue, cooperation and team-building,
trust, unity-in-diversity, ethic of reciprocity, individual freedom,
democracy, science, healing and forgiveness, personal responsibility,
objective interpretation, wisdom and virtue. Although intended for group
work, most of it is applicable to personal use. 4
Interfaith Voices for Peace and Justice have a page of statements
which describe members' "Philosophy of Interfaith Relations".
Although intended to guide people in ecumenical and inter-faith
activities, many of the statements apply equally well to personal
activities. 5
Ayn Rand, in her book "Atlas Shrugged" wrote:
"If I were
to speak your kind of language, I would say that man's only moral
commandment is: Thou shalt think. But a 'moral commandment' is a
contradiction in terms. The moral is the chosen, not the forced; the
understood, not the obeyed. The moral is the rational, and reason
accepts no commandments." 6
References:
Ellery Schempp, "The
Democratic Way," The First Parish in Bedford, Unitarian
Universalist, 2004-FEB-01, at:
http://home.comcast.net/