Many people have been taught during childhood that homosexual behavior is
condemned both by God and by their religion as unnatural and morally
degenerate. If they discover later in life that they are lesbian, gay, or
bisexual they often go through a spiritual crisis. Too many realize that
their sexual orientation is unchangeable, and that they cannot go through
life as someone that they have been taught to hate; they commit suicide.
(About 30% of teen suicides are due to this cause; one of the costs of
homophobia). Survivors experience a conflict between what they are and what
they believe. They sometimes abandon their religion. Some become
enthusiastically anti-religious.
The purpose of this essay is to explore the possibility of a gay or lesbian
restoring their faith by overcoming the apparent conflict between their
religion and their sexual orientation. We will select what might be the
most difficult example: that of a homosexual, ex-Fundamentalist Christian
who believes that the Bible is inerrant; (i.e. is without error in its
original form) and whose denomination condemns homosexual behavior.
Step 1: What Did Jesus Christ Say about Homosexuality?
He is recorded as having given hundreds of instructions
covering behavior and thought; but none of these dealt with homosexuality.
Jesus concentrated on a person's interactions with God and his fellow humans.
He did tell the woman who committed adultery to go and sin no more. But that
was the only time he is known to have commented on sexual morality. Jesus
may have felt that homosexuality was not a matter worth commenting upon.
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Step 2: Understanding the Hebrew Scriptures
There are many places in the Hebrew Scriptures (Old Testament) that have been
traditionally interpreted as condemning homosexuality. It is important that
we go past modern day translations. like the King James Version, and
determine what the original authors wrote. In their eagerness to condemn
gays and lesbians, the translators and interpreters of the Bible often
introduced an anti-homosexual slant. A careful
analysis of the original texts reveals a different story:
Genesis 19 describes the destruction of Sodom, which has been attributed
to the homosexuality of its citizens; the men may have wanted to rape the
(male) angels. Actually, the text at this point is ambiguous; the original
Hebrew word sometimes referred to sexual activity although it usually meant
"to know" in a literal sense. But a careful reading of Genesis and
Ezekiel reveals that inhospitality, pride, idol worship, and lack of
consideration for the poor were their prime sins. If homosexuality was
involved, it was obviously not consensual sexual activity; it was rape. So
we can safely conclude that Sodom was destroyed because of the sins of its
citizens which included their habit of raping visitors. Judges 19 seems to
be a duplicate of the Genesis story.
Leviticus 18:22 & 20:13 appears to condemn male homosexual behavior, but
in fact only refers to temple prostitution. Even if it did refer to lesbian
and gay relationships, it would not be applicable to Christians today, any
more than are the other 613 laws which make up the Jewish Holiness Code.
It is less than genuine for a Christian teleminister or theologian to imply
that these verses are still valid for the beliefs and conduct of Christians,
while stating that the remaining laws of the Holiness Code are not applicable.
Deuteronomy 23:17, I Kings 14:24 and 15:12 are mistranslated in some
versions of the Bible as referring to homosexual behavior. "Temple
prostitute" would be an accurate translation.
Ruth 1:16 and 2:10-11 describe a deeply intimate relationship between
Ruth and Naomi which may or may not have had a sexual component.
1 Samuel 18:1-4 and 20:41-42 and 2 Samuel 1:25-26 describe a deeply
intimate relationship between David and Jonathan which may or may not have
had a sexual component.
We conclude that the Hebrew Scriptures condemn homosexual rape and temple
prostitution, but do not disapprove of gay and lesbian relationships. One
can be confident that centuries of fire and brimstone sermons on
homosexuality based on verses from the Old Testament are misinterpretations
of the Bible.
Step 3: Understanding the Christian Scriptures
There are many places in the Christian Scriptures (New Testament) that have
been traditionally interpreted as condemning
homosexuality.
Romans 1:26 and 27 has St. Paul criticizing sexual activity which is
against a person's nature or disposition. This passage has been variously
interpreted to refer to all homosexual behavior, to orgiastic activity,
to temple prostitution, or to heterosexuals who were engaging in same-sex
exchanges. The meaning is unclear.
I Corinthians 6:9 contains a lists of activities that will prevent
people from inheriting the Kingdom of God. One was translated as referring
to masturbation, and is now sometimes translated as "homosexual". The
true meaning is lost.
1 Tim 1:9 is similar to I Corinthians.
Jude 7 refers to the people of Sodom as "giving themselves over to
fornication and going after strange flesh". The latter has been variously
translated as women engaging in sexual intercourse with angels and as
homosexuality. The exact meaning is lost.
We conclude that St. Paul in the Christian Scriptures seems to have
condemned some homosexual activity, but it is unclear which ones. There is
no mention of loving, committed gay and lesbian relations in the Christian
Scriptures.
Step 4: Understanding the Beliefs and Policies of Religious Institutions
Some Christian denominations appear to be give great emphasis to what people
do in bed with each other, rather than concentrating on drugs, hatred,
homophobia, poverty, racism, religious intolerance, sexism, violence, etc.
Over the past few centuries, many sexual debates have emerged
between established religious organizations and other groups in society.
These have included:
abortion
birth control
female clergy
homosexual behavior
inter-faith marriage
inter-racial marriage
pre-marital sexual experience
roles of men and women in marriage and society
same-sex marriages
As a general rule, liberal faith groups resolve these conflicts
first. These are followed by the mainline religious organizations, and
finally by the Fundamentalists. As one example, consider birth control.
At the turn of the century, all or essentially all religious groups condemned
family planning; some were active in promoting laws to ban the sale of
contraceptives. Today, almost all groups consider birth control to be a
non-issue. One major exception is the Roman Catholic Church. But even here,
the "People of God" (the membership of the church) has almost fully adopted
birth control in their own lives.
Consider most intractable conflict: abortion.
A few decades ago, there was a unified front among religious groups keep
the procedure criminalized; legislation reflected this. Currently, the most
liberal religious groups (Unitarian Universalist Association, United Church
of Canada, United Church of Christ, etc.) support a woman's right to choose.
Mainline religious groups (Anglican, Congregationalists, Methodists, etc)
have a variety of policies. The most conservative (Fundamentalists and
other Evangelicals) are unalterably opposed. But even in the latter case,
there is some movement in a liberal direction: more groups now support a
woman's access to abortion if the pregnancy is the result of rape or incest,
or if it is to save the life of the woman. Here we clearly see a debate in
progress in which the most liberal groups change first, followed by the
mainline, with the conservative wing lagging far behind.
Inter-faith and inter-racial marriages were once hot religious topics.
They have mostly become non-issues. Female ordination, feminism, and other sexually
related topics are currently being hotly debated.
With the possible exception of the most conservative, faith groups are
discussing whether:
celibate gay and lesbian adults are eligible for membership and/or
ordination
sexually active gay and lesbian persons are eligible for membership
and/or ordination
homosexuals involved in loving committed relationships should have their
unions recognized in some form of religious ritual
same-sex marriages should be allowed
there should be some form of educational process of the general
membership about homosexuality, in order to compensate for the hatred
taught by most religious groups for centuries
A survey of Christian churches and other religions
reveals that many groups are agonizing over changes to their policies. Many
decide to take either no action or to take the next step towards
liberalization. To our knowledge, no faith group has gone in the opposite
direction. As more lesbians and gays come out of the closet, more
scientific research reveals the causes of sexual orientation, and the next
generation takes over positions of power, the relaxation of policies against
homosexuals are expected to continue. We expect that early in the next
century, most religious groups will accept that homosexual feelings are
not chosen and are unchangeable in adulthood. Those still opposed to
homosexual behavior will probably concentrate on convincing lesbians and
gays to be celibate.
We feel that the trend towards accepting homosexual orientation as natural,
and normal is unstoppable, and that all religious groups will abandon their
restrictions on gay and lesbian participation. It will take many decades
for the most conservative groups to complete this process.
Step 5: Where to Go for Spiritual Support
There are several options:
Ask your local Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual support agency whether they have an
affiliated spiritual group. If not, consider forming one.
Determine if your denomination or faith group has a office for homosexual
concerns of if members have formed their own organization. We have a partial list of such groups.
Consider moving to a more liberal religious group
Consider moving to the Metropolitan Community
Church which is made up of about 85% gays, lesbians and bisexuals. They
follow a conservative theology
Consider becoming a "solitary practitioner", and follow your faith by
yourself
Read a book that describes the life experience of a devout
Christian who is also gay. The best one that we have found so
far is Mel White, "Strangers at the Gate: To be Gay and
Christian in America", Simon & Schuster, New York NY (1994)
You can order it through an on-line bookstore, such as: You
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Reference
68 Christian and non-Christian clergy in Madison, Wisconsin endorsed a
statement: "A Madison Affirmation: On Homosexuality and Christian Faith" on
1997-MAY-12. See:
http://www.iwgonline.org/docs/madison.html