About this site
About us
Our beliefs
Is this your first visit?
Contact us
External links
Good books
Visitor essays
Our forum
New essays
Other site features
Buy a CD of this site
Vital notes

World religions
BUDDHISM
CHRISTIANITY
   Who is a Christian?
   Shared beliefs
   Handling change
   Bible topics
   Bible inerrancy
   Bible harmony
   Interpret Bible
   Persons
   Beliefs, creeds
   Da Vinci code
   Revelation, 666
HINDUISM
ISLAM
JUDAISM
WICCA / WITCHCRAFT
 
Other religions
Cults and NRMs
Comparing religions

Non-theistic...
Atheism
Agnosticism
Humanism
Other

About all religions
Important topics
Basic information
Gods & Goddesses
Handling change
Doubt/security
Quotes
Movies
Confusing terms
Glossary
End of the world
One true religion?
Seasonal topics
Science v. Religion
More info.

Spirituality and ethics
Spirituality
Morality and ethics
Absolute truth

Peace and conflict
Attaining peace
Religious tolerance
Religious hatred
Religious conflict
Religious violence

"Hot" topics
Very hot topics
Ten commandments
Abortion access
Assisted suicide
Cloning
Death penalty
Environment
Equal rights -gays/bi's
Same-sex marriage
Nudism
Origins of the species
Sex & gender
Sin
Spanking kids
Stem cells
Women-rights
Other topics

Laws and news
Religious laws
Religious news

Sponsored link

Religious watches by Whimsical Watches
 

  Web site logo

Homosexuality and bisexuality

Introduction: Please read this or the
rest of this section won't make sense

horizontal rule

Sponsored link.

horizontal rule

Quotation sampler:

bullet"Because families are defined by love not gender. Because hatred is not a family value. Because equal rights are not special rights." Anonymous comment found on a gay web site.
bullet"If you're gay or a lesbian, its a biological error" Dr. Laura Schlessinger, physiologist and radio/TV talk show host.
bullet"Homosexuality is assuredly no advantage, but it is nothing to be ashamed of, no vice, no degradation, it cannot be classified as an illness." Sigmund Freud (1935)
bullet"The fact is that more people have been slaughtered in the name of religion than for any other single reason. That, THAT my friends, is true perversion."   Harvey Milk, a gay male who spoke the above words at the 1978 Gay Freedom Day Rally. He was killed later that year by a fanatic.
bullet"[Homosexuals are] brute beasts...part of a vile and satanic system [that] will be utterly annihilated, and there will be a celebration in heaven." Jerry Falwell, a well known Fundamentalist Christian teleminister.
bullet"The opposite of homosexuality isn't heterosexuality; the opposite of homosexuality is holiness." Mike Haley, the director of gender issues for Focus on the Family
bullet"Whatever religious people may say about their love of God or the mandates of their religion, when their behavior toward others is violent and destructive, when it causes suffering among their neighbors, you can be sure the religion has been corrupted and reform is desperately needed." Charles Kimball and author of a book: When Religion Becomes Evil.
bullet"When religion sanctifies hatred, it lends to that hatred a special ferocity. Normal moral inhibitors are erased." Johannes Cardinal Wildebrands.
bullet"You can safely assume that you've created God in your own image, when it  turns out that God hates all the same people you do." Anne Lamott
bullet"...change is possible. No one is born gay. It's a perverted choice one makes. Why would God make anyone homosexual then bar them admittance into the Kingdom of Heaven?" From the "Christians No Longer Gay Living for God" web site." 1
bullet"Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?" Ernest Gaines
bullet"You could move." Abigail Van Buren in "Dear Abby" replying to a reader who was concerned that a gay couple had moved across the road from him; he wanted to know what he could do to improve the quality of the neighborhood.
bullet"It always seemed to me a bit pointless to disapprove of homosexuality. It's like disapproving of rain."  Francis Maude
bullet"The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to the heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just that they need more supervision." Lynn Lavner

horizontal rule

The core problem:

There is no consensus in North America about homosexuality:

bulletSome people consider homosexual behavior to be a crime. They believe that sexually active gays and lesbians should be arrested, charged, and perhaps imprisoned.
bulletOthers feel that homosexuality is a disorder or an addiction that can be corrected through personal repentance and trusting Jesus as Lord and Savior, supplemented by reparative therapy.
bulletStill others consider homosexual orientation to be a morally neutral trait, like left handedness. It is normal, natural, and unchosen. Of course, homosexual acts -- like heterosexual acts -- can be sinful and sometimes criminal if they involve manipulation, coercion, lack of consent, significant danger of passing an STD, etc.

There is a major divide between those under 40 years of age -- who tend to have more liberal and inclusive beliefs about homosexuality -- and those over 60 who are much more conservative. As younger adults come into positions of power and older adults retire, a major shift in the acceptance of homosexuality is expected.

horizontal rule

Oppression based on race, sex, sexual orientation, and sexual identity:

Over the past 150 years, there have been many groups who have sought the North American dream of "liberty and justice for all." Examples are:

bulletAfrican-Americans seeking an end to slavery.
bulletWomen seeking entry into professions that had been denied them.
bulletWomen campaigning to get universal suffrage.
bulletFor the past few decades, gays and lesbians have been actively seeking the same equal rights and protections enjoyed by other groups, including the right to marry.
bulletTranssexuals are now seeking equal treatment and protections as well.

The dispute over homosexuality is a little different from the previous two conflicts based on race and gender:

bulletIt is generally obvious whether a person is Black or female. It is not obvious whether a person has a homosexual orientation. A gay or lesbian can stay in "the closet" and avoid discrimination.
bulletNo consensus has been reached over the nature, cause, and permanence of homosexuality:
bulletMany social and religious conservatives believe that homosexuality is immoral, chosen after puberty, is a lifestyle, is defined by one's behavior, and is changeable.
bulletMost gays, lesbians, religious liberals, mental health professionals believe that homosexuality is morally neutral, is determined by some combination of genetics and environmental factors before school age, is a sexual orientation, is defined by ones sexual attraction to persons of the same sex, and is very rarely if ever changeable in adulthood.
bulletHomosexual orientation and behavior involve sexual attraction, sexual behavior, sexual fantasies, etc. -- topics about which many people feel awkward to consider or discuss.

horizontal rule

The "warfare" among science & religions:

Normally, there are minimal conflicts between scientists and theologians. They usually work in different areas of interest. Theologians are rarely interested in the tensile strength of steel. Scientists -- at work, at least -- are rarely interested in the soul, salvation, Heaven or Hell. But there are shared areas where both scientists and theologians promote their own beliefs. Often, these beliefs are in conflict.

As of 2003, the main areas of religious conflict are the origins of the universe, discipline of children through corporal punishment, and various human sexuality topics:

bulletHomosexuality is measurable and thus is a legitimate area for human sexuality researchers to study. They have generally concluded that adult human sexuality comes in three natural, normal, unchosen, and unchangeable orientations:
bulletHeterosexuality: Most are sexually attracted to members of the opposite gender.
bulletHomosexuality: A small minority of adults are attracted to members of the same gender.
bulletBisexuality: A smaller minority are attracted to both men and women, but not necessarily to the same degree.
bulletHomosexuality is mentioned in the Bible, in the Qur'an, in writings of the Baha'i Prophet Baha'u'llah, and in other texts considered sacred in various world religions. Thus, homosexuality is a legitimate area for theologians to study.
bulletReligious conservatives believe in the freedom of error -- the inerrancy -- of the Bible. They base their beliefs about homosexual behavior on their interpretation of biblical passages. They generally conclude that it is sinful, unnatural, abnormal, chosen and changeable behavior.
bulletReligious liberals generally approach the Bible as a historical document rather than as the inerrant Word of God. They base their beliefs about homosexual orientation on their interpretation of the same biblical passages, and on general biblical themes of justice, love and acceptance. They also consider the findings of human sexuality researchers. They generally agree with scientists that homosexuality is a morally neutral, natural, normal, unchosen, and unchangeable orientation, just like heterosexuality.

horizontal rule

Sponsored link:

horizontal rule

Two opposing definitions:

In the above text, there are two opposing concepts as to the nature of homosexuality:

bulletAccording to almost all human sexuality researchers, mental health therapists, medical practitioners, religious liberals, gays, lesbians, bisexuals, etc., homosexuality is one of three sexual orientations. A person's orientation is based on the sex to which a person is attracted, the person's fantasies, and self-identification. "Homosexual is what one feels:"
bulletA heterosexual is a person who is sexually attracted to members of the opposite sex.
bulletA homosexual is a person who is attracted to members to the same sex.
bulletA bisexual is a person who is attracted to both sexes, although not necessarily to the same degree.
bulletAccording to most religious conservatives, the term "homosexuality" refers to behavior, not to sexual orientation. "Homosexuality is what one does:"
bulletA heterosexual is a person who has recently engaged in sexual behavior only with a person(s) of the opposite gender.
bulletA homosexual is a person who has recently engaged in sexual behavior with one or more persons of the same gender.
bulletBisexuality is rarely mentioned.

This difference in definitions makes dialogue almost impossible. As examples:

bulletConsider a person who is only attracted to individuals of the same gender, and who has solely engaged in same-sex behavior. Most religious liberals and conservatives would both consider him/her to be a homosexual. However, if the person now decides to remain celibate, religious liberals would generally consider her/him to be celibate, but still a homosexual. Many religious conservatives would consider that he has "left the gay lifestyle" and is now an "ex-gay." This leads to immense confusion.
bulletSimilarly, a bisexual who had been sexually active with both men and women would be considered a bisexual by most religious liberals, but would be viewed as a homosexual by most conservatives. If the individual decided to restrict his/her sexual relationship(s) with persons of the opposite sex, they would be considered an ex-gay by most conservatives and a bisexual by most liberals.

To make matters even more confusing, some religious and social conservatives have redefined the term "sexual orientation." The American Family Association and Traditional Values Coalition state that there are 30, not three, sexual orientations. They have taken the three generally accepted sexual orientations -- heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality -- and added to them 17 paraphilias from the American Psychiatric Association's "Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders." 1,2,3 According to Wikipedia, paraphilia:

"... is a term that describes a family of persistent, intense fantasies, aberrant urges, or behaviors involving sexual arousal to nonhuman objects, pain or humiliation experienced by oneself or one's partner, children, or nonconsenting individuals or unsuitable partners." 4

Examples are voyeurism, bestiality, necrophilia, sexual masochism, sexual sadism, etc. Finally, these groups tossed in some definitions of their own, including incest, prostitution, transsexuality, etc. If conservatives adopt such a broad definition of sexual orientation, they could argue that civil rights legislation intended to equally protect heterosexuals, homosexuals and bisexuals would also protect persons engaging in incest, bestiality, prostitution, etc. It is thus of critical importance for such legislation to clarify exactly what it includes under its definition of "sexual orientation." More information.

horizontal rule

Beliefs of the American public:

By far the most vocal groups in the media who discuss homosexuality are religious conservatives debating supporters of equal rights for gays, lesbians and bisexuals. But there are more than two viewpoints concerning homosexuality. We have been able to identify at least six viewpoints which we refer to as:

bulletAbomination (the most conservative position),
bulletChange is expected,
bulletCelibacy is expected,
bulletMarginally acceptable,
bulletEquality and
bulletLiberation (the most liberal position).

For simplicity, most of our essays compare and contrast very conservative with very liberal positions.

Equal rights for homosexuals is one of the most controversial and divisive social topics in North America. Evangelical Christians consider it to be the most important social conflict at the present time -- more important to them even than restricting or eliminating abortion access for women. Polls report that public beliefs about homosexuality are in a state of flux.  Barna Research found that:

bulletAmong Fundamentalist and other Evangelical Christians, 95% find the "lifestyle" to be unacceptable.
bulletAmong born-again Christians, 66% agree.
bulletAmong the general population, only 46% agrees.
bulletOne indication of future trends is a survey of high school seniors taken in 2002; it indicated that only 39% believe that "gay lifestyles are morally wrong."

horizontal rule

About the morality and legality of homosexuality:

Again, we see a split between:

bulletConservative Christians generally believe that all homosexual behavior is intrinsically sinful. They oppose legislation that extends equal treatment or protection to gays and lesbians in employment, accommodation and protection from hate crimes. They favor legislation that gives special rights to heterosexuals, such as the right to marry. If being gay is difficult and dangerous, they assume that fewer people will choose the "homosexual lifestyle."
bulletOthers -- almost all gays, lesbians, religious liberals, mental health professionals, and human sexuality researchers -- regard homosexual behavior as morally neutral. If sexual behavior is consensual, non-manipulative, safe and between two adults in a committed relationship, they regard it as not sinful, for either opposite-sex or same-sex couples. Since sexual orientation is beyond a person's control, most feel that equal treatment and protection should be extended to persons of all sexual orientations: heterosexuals, gays, lesbians and bisexuals.

As noted above, many, perhaps most individuals have beliefs that are intermediate between these two. Many conservative and mainline Christians, for example, advocate protection of gays and lesbians in employment, while still believing that homosexuality is unacceptable, sinful behavior.

horizontal rule

About homophobia:

Merriam-Webster's Collegiate Dictionary. defines homophobia as an "irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals" Unfortunately, the term has more than one meaning. This leads to a lot of hard feelings, confusion, and an inability to dialog. By this definition:

bulletOne can be homophobic if one fears or hates gays and/or lesbians, even if one has no interest in oppressing or discriminating against them.
bulletOne can be homophobic if one discriminates against them, even though one has no irrational fear or aversion towards homosexuals.

The term "homophobia" is similar to such words as: sexism, racism, and religious hatred. Sometimes they mean simple hatred or aversion; other times they refer to activities intended to restrict the human rights of people on the basis of gender, race, religion, etc.  In terms of the victims' lives, simple hatred and aversion has little effect. It is action of oppression and discrimination which harm people.

We will use homophobia to refer to the latter activity -- desire and/or actions to oppress and discriminate against gays and lesbians. More details.

horizontal rule

References used:

The following information sources were used to prepare and update the above essay. The hyperlinks are not necessarily still active today.

  1. Rev. Lou Sheldon, "What is a 'Sexual Orientation'," News release, Traditional Values Coalition, 2007-JUN-04.
  2. "What is a 'Sexual Orientation'," Special report, Traditional Values Coalition, undated, at: http://www.traditionalvalues.org/
  3. "What is a 'Sexual Orientation'?" American Family Association, undated, at: http://www.afa.net/

horizontal rule

Site navigation:

Home > "Hot" religious topics > Homosexuality & Bisexuality > here

horizontal rule

Copyright ©1996 to 2008 by Ontario Consultants on Religious Tolerance
Last updated 2008-MAR-2
5
Author: Bruce A Robinson

line.gif (538 bytes)

horizontal rule

Go to the previous page, or go to the "Homosexual / bisexual" menu, or choose:

Google
Web ReligiousTolerance.org

Go to home page  We would really appreciate your help

E-mail us about errors, etc.  Purchase a CD of this web site

FreeFind search, lists of new essays...  Having problems printing our essays?