Homosexuality, heterosexuality and bisexuality: These terms have been
used to refer either to:
Feelings of sexual attraction towards another person, or to
Sexual practices.
During discussions of sexual orientation, a person may switch between these two
meanings. This causes much confusion and misunderstanding; sometimes this is
done intentionally.
We recommend that the terms homosexual, heterosexual, and bisexual never be used
in isolation, but always be identified as referring to either feeling or practices.
Sexual orientation has been given many different meanings:
Gays, lesbians, sociologists, psychologists, human sexuality researchers, members of
liberal and some mainline faith groups use this term to indicate a person's
feelings of sexual attraction to males and females. They recognize three sexual orientations,
all of which they feel are normal, natural, and fixed in adults:
heterosexuals are attracted to the opposite gender only.
homosexuals are attracted to the same gender only.
bisexuals are attracted to both men and women, but not necessarily to the same degree.
An article by the American Psychiatric Association for the public on "Gay,
Lesbian and Bisexual Issues" states:
“Sexual orientation” is a term
frequently used to describe a person’s romantic, emotional or sexual attraction
to another person.
A person attracted to another
person of the same sex is said to have a homosexual orientation and may be
called gay (both men and women) or lesbian.
Individuals attracted to persons
of the other sex are said to have a heterosexual orientation.
Sexual orientation falls along a
continuum and individuals who are attracted to both men and women are said to be
bisexual.
Sexual orientation is different
from gender identity, which refers to the internal sense of whether one is male
or female.
Sexual orientation is a relatively new concept. In fact, although same sex
behavior has always existed, the idea of a homosexual identity or a homosexual
person is only about 100 years old.
Conservative Christians and some religious conservatives within mainline faith groups frequently
avoid the term "sexual orientation" entirely. That is because it implies
a factor in life that is not chosen and is not changeable.
Some prefer the term "sexual preference" or "homosexual
preference." That implies that gays and lesbians are really bisexuals. i.e. they are
attracted by both men and women, but they have a "preference"
for members of the same sex. Thus, they could all choose opposite-sex partners
if they wished
Others use the term "sexual lifestyle" or "homosexual lifestyle." That indicates that a homosexual orientation is not innate. It is a
"lifestyle" selection, as in the choice whether to marry or remain single,
whether to get a job or be self-employed, whether to drive a car or ride a bicycle,
etc.
Some conservative
Christians use the terms "sexual orientation," "preference," or
"lifestyle" very
broadly to include feelings or behavior towards men and women, animals, and children. They believe
that the term covers a wide range of feelings and behaviors, including
heterosexual or homosexual attraction to persons of the same age
group, incest, polygamy (both polygyny and polyandry), bestiality, and pedophilia. They consider only the first to
be normal and natural. By using this definition, they can conclude
that any legislation giving equal rights to persons of all sexual
orientations would also legalize bestiality, incest, sexual abuse
of children, polygamy, etc.
Many conservative Christians do not acknowledge the existence of a bisexual orientation,
believing peoples feelings of attraction to be either purely heterosexual or homosexual.
Gay has been a widely used synonym of "male homosexual."
Its meaning is rapidly evolving to refer to both male and female
homosexuals. Some people
differentiate between homosexual and gay: homosexual is regarded as a sexual
orientation; gay is a political identity -- i.e. an advocate for equal rights
for persons of all sexual orientations.
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Origin of terms
Homosexual: For most of recorded history, everyone was assumed to have a heterosexual
orientation. There were no homosexuals and bisexuals -- only persons who had sex
with members of the same sex. "Homosexual" was first used by a Karoly M. Kertbeny in private correspondence in 1868. It
first appeared publicly in two anonymous German pamphlets published in 1869 which opposed
extending a Prussian anti-sodomy law throughout all of the German Confederation.
Fag: This is generally used as a snarl word by heterosexuals to insult male
homosexuals. The word is also used with positive connotations by gays and
lesbians. The most common belief is that "fag" is derived from
the word "faggot." Faggots were sticks of wood that were used
to start a fire at a Witch burning. Some believed that a gay or lesbian person
would be burned, along with faggots, to help start the fire. Gradually, the term
was believed to be used to refer to the victim instead of the wood. This
etymology appears to be incorrect. Tracing the history of "faggot" back
through French and Latin to its Greek origin, it has always referred to a bundle of
sticks.
"Fag" was originally used to refer to something that nobody
wanted, like the frayed end of a rope. Later it was used to describe menial work
that nobody was willing to perform. Still later it was adopted in the British public
school system. Students in the upper class would torment students in the junior
grades. To be a "fag" meant that you were under the control of a
senior student. Occasionally this meant that you would be forced to be the
passive partner during anal intercourse. Finally, the term became associated
with the act itself.
Gay: Some people believe that "gay" is an an acronym for "good
as you." This is a nice theory, but without foundation. "Gay" has had many different meanings in the past. It was
used as a synonym for happy by Chaucer in the 14th century. By
1637, it took on the meaning of a person leading a loose and immoral life.
By 1825, it was sometimes used to refer to female hookers. By the late 19th
century, it meant to be in good health or to be convalescent. A "gay
house" was a brothel.
"Gay" was first used to refer to a male homosexual in
the 1933 play "Young & Evil." Cary Grant used it in
the 1938 movie "Bringing up Baby" to refer to a
transvestite. Gershn Legman & G.V. Henry mentioned the term in their
book Sexual Variations (1941). In recent years, it has been
used to refer to lesbians as well as homosexual males. 1