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Meanings of terms

As in the field of abortion, many homosexual terms are defined by people in different ways. Meanings of words are often chosen to promote a specific belief system. 

bulletHomosexuality, heterosexuality and bisexuality: These terms have been used to refer either to:
bulletFeelings of sexual attraction towards another person, or to
bulletSexual practices.

During discussions of sexual orientation, a person may switch between these two meanings. This causes much confusion and misunderstanding; sometimes this is done intentionally. We recommend that the terms homosexual, heterosexual, and bisexual never be used in isolation, but always be identified as referring to either feeling or practices.

bulletSexual orientation has been given many different meanings:
bulletGays, lesbians, sociologists, psychologists, human sexuality researchers, members of liberal and some mainline faith groups use this term to indicate a person's feelings of sexual attraction to males and females. They recognize three sexual orientations, all of which they feel are normal, natural, and fixed in adults:
bulletheterosexuals are attracted to the opposite gender only.
bullethomosexuals are attracted to the same gender only.
bulletbisexuals are attracted to both men and women, but not necessarily to the same degree.
bulletAn article by the American Psychiatric Association for the public on "Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Issues" states:
bullet“Sexual orientation” is a term frequently used to describe a person’s romantic, emotional or sexual attraction to another person.
bulletA person attracted to another person of the same sex is said to have a homosexual orientation and may be called gay (both men and women) or lesbian.
bulletIndividuals attracted to persons of the other sex are said to have a heterosexual orientation.
bulletSexual orientation falls along a continuum and individuals who are attracted to both men and women are said to be bisexual.

Sexual orientation is different from gender identity, which refers to the internal sense of whether one is male or female.

Sexual orientation is a relatively new concept. In fact, although same sex behavior has always existed, the idea of a homosexual identity or a homosexual person is only about 100 years old.

bulletConservative Christians and some religious conservatives within mainline faith groups frequently avoid the term "sexual orientation" entirely. That is because it implies a factor in life that is not chosen and is not changeable.
bulletSome prefer the term "sexual preference" or "homosexual preference." That implies that gays and lesbians are really bisexuals. i.e. they are attracted by both men and women, but they have a "preference" for members of the same sex. Thus, they could all choose opposite-sex partners if they wished
bulletOthers use the term "sexual lifestyle" or "homosexual lifestyle."  That indicates that a homosexual orientation is not innate. It is a "lifestyle" selection, as in the choice whether to marry or remain single, whether to get a job or be self-employed, whether to drive a car or ride a bicycle, etc.
bulletSome conservative Christians use the terms "sexual orientation," "preference," or "lifestyle" very broadly to include feelings or behavior towards men and women, animals, and children. They believe that the term covers a wide range of feelings and behaviors, including heterosexual or homosexual attraction to persons of the same age group, incest, polygamy (both polygyny and polyandry), bestiality, and pedophilia. They consider only the first to be normal and natural. By using this definition, they can conclude that any legislation giving equal rights to persons of all sexual orientations would also legalize bestiality, incest, sexual abuse of children, polygamy, etc. 

Many conservative Christians do not acknowledge the existence of a bisexual orientation, believing peoples feelings of attraction to be either purely heterosexual or homosexual.

bulletGay has been a widely used synonym of "male homosexual." Its meaning is rapidly evolving to refer to both male and female homosexuals. Some people differentiate between homosexual and gay: homosexual is regarded as a sexual orientation; gay is a political identity -- i.e. an advocate for equal rights for persons of all sexual orientations.

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Origin of terms 

bulletHomosexual: For most of recorded history, everyone was assumed to have a heterosexual orientation. There were no homosexuals and bisexuals -- only persons who had sex with members of the same sex. "Homosexual" was first used by a Karoly M. Kertbeny in private correspondence in 1868. It first appeared publicly in two anonymous German pamphlets published in 1869 which opposed extending a Prussian anti-sodomy law throughout all of the German Confederation.
bulletFag: This is generally used as a snarl word by heterosexuals to insult male homosexuals. The word is also used with positive connotations by gays and lesbians. The most common belief is that "fag" is derived from the word "faggot." Faggots were sticks of wood that were used to start a fire at a Witch burning. Some believed that a gay or lesbian person would be burned, along with faggots, to help start the fire. Gradually, the term was believed to be used to refer to the victim instead of the wood. This etymology appears to be incorrect. Tracing the history of "faggot" back through French and Latin to its Greek origin, it has always referred to a bundle of sticks.

"Fag" was originally used to refer to something that nobody wanted, like the frayed end of a rope. Later it was used to describe menial work that nobody was willing to perform. Still later it was adopted in the British public school system. Students in the upper class would torment students in the junior grades. To be a "fag" meant that you were under the control of a senior student. Occasionally this meant that you would be forced to be the passive partner during anal intercourse. Finally, the term became associated with the act itself.

bulletGay: Some people believe that "gay" is an an acronym for "good as you." This is a nice theory, but without foundation. "Gay" has had many different meanings in the past. It was used as a synonym for happy by Chaucer in the 14th century. By 1637, it took on the meaning of a person leading a loose and immoral life. By 1825, it was sometimes used to refer to female hookers. By the late 19th century, it meant to be in good health or to be convalescent. A "gay house" was a brothel. 

"Gay" was first used to refer to a male homosexual in the 1933 play "Young & Evil." Cary Grant used it in the 1938 movie "Bringing up Baby" to refer to a transvestite. Gershn Legman & G.V. Henry mentioned the term in their book Sexual Variations (1941). In recent years, it has been used to refer to lesbians as well as homosexual males. 1

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bulletMeaning of the terms "homophobia" and "homophobic"

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Reference

  1. "Glossary for reading about witches, mid-wives and magic," at: http://www.rci.rutgers.edu/~jup/witches/dictionary.html 
  2. http://www.interlog.com/~alandp/2OriginHealing
  3. "Etymologies & World Origins: Letter G," at: http://www.wilton.net/etyma1.htm
  4. George Chauncey, "Gay New York: Gender, Urban Culture, and the Making of the Gay Male World, 1890-1940," Basic Books, (1995). A winner of the 1994 Los Angeles Times Book Prize for History. Read reviews or order this book safely from Amazon.com online book store  
  5. Gregory Ward, "Studies on Gay & Lesbian language: A partial bibliography," at: http://www.msu.edu/~greenm14/outil/gaybib.html 

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