Sexual orientation according to most religious conservatives:
Most Christian fundamentalists, evangelicals and other religious
conservatives rarely use the term "sexual orientation" to refer to
heterosexuals, bisexuals and homosexuals. They avoid the term for two main
reasons:
Reason 1: They do not view homosexuality, heterosexuality and bisexuality as
related to sexual attraction towards another person. They define the words
in terms of sexual behavior:
A homosexual is a person who has recently engaged in sexual behavior
with a person of the same sex. Thus a homosexual can become an ex-gay by
deciding to remain celibate.
A heterosexual is one who has engaged in sexual behavior only with a
person or persons of the opposite sex. Alternately, a
virgin is a heterosexual .
A "bisexual." is a person who has had sex with both men and women. A
bisexual can become an ex-gay by deciding to restrict their
relationships with the opposite sex only. Many religious conservatives
rarely use the term "bisexual."
Reason 2: The word "orientation" implies a fixed property -- a factor that is a
foundational part of a person's being that cannot be changed. The word implies something that is discovered, not chosen. Many Christian
conservatives believe that homosexuality is chosen and changeable. They base
this belief largely on Corinthians 6:9-11:
"Or know ye not that the
unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither
fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor
abusers of themselves with men, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor
drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
And such were some of you: but ye were washed, but ye were sanctified, but
ye were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, and in the Spirit of
our God."(Emphasis ours).
The implication is that once a person is "saved,"
persons with a bisexual or homosexual orientation change so that they have a
heterosexual orientation. It is worth noting that many theologians believe that terms such as "effeminate"
and "abusers of themselves with men" are a
mistranslation.
Religious conservatives frequently prefer the terms:
"Sexual preference" or "homosexual
preference." That implies that gays and lesbians are really bisexuals. i.e. they are
attracted by both men and women, but they have a "preference"
for members of the same sex. Thus, they could all choose opposite-sex partners
if they wished.
"Sexual lifestyle" or "homosexual lifestyle." That indicates that a homosexual orientation is not innate. It is a
"lifestyle" selection, as in the choice of whether to marry or remain single,
whether to get a job or be self-employed, whether to drive a car or ride a bicycle,
whether to live in the city, suburbs or a rural area, etc.
Their preferred terms imply that homosexuals have chosen to be gay and that
they can easily change at any time.
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Sexual orientation according to some religious conservatives:
Some religious and social conservatives have broadened the terms "sexual orientation" immensely
beyond the three that other groups recognize.
They seem to have reasoned that if religious conservatives believe that
sexual orientation is defined by sexual behavior, then all sexual behaviors may
be defined as sexual orientations.
The result is that they add a wide variety of sexual feelings or
behaviors towards men and women, animals, and children. They believe that "sexual
orientation" covers heterosexual or homosexual attraction to persons of the same age
group, incest, polygamy (both polygyny and polyandry), bestiality, pedophilia --
a total of perhaps 30 activities. By using this definition, they can conclude
that any legislation giving equal rights to persons on the basis of their sexual
orientation would also legalize bestiality, incest, sexual abuse
of children, sexual abuse of youth, polygamy, etc.
The Traditional Values Coalition (TVC)
The TVC issued a news release 1 and published a special report
2 that defines 30 behaviors that they
feel qualify as sexual orientations.
Rev, Lou Sheldon's news release referred to a federal employee protections act
.R. 2232 3 that protects employees
on the basis of their sexual orientation, but is lacking a definition of
the term. He writes:
"... the American Psychiatric Association (APA) has
listed 30 such sexual orientation behaviors that would potentially
be granted special minority status, like race, under this
legislation. ..."
"You will very much want these three bills stopped when you hear
what the definition is of sexual orientation. Some are even against
the law. TVC will be working night and day with this and other new
information which we have to convince Members of Congress not to
support these bills."
"What Is A ‘Sexual Orientation’? There are 30 different categories
of 'sexual orientation!'!”
"The American Psychiatric Association (APA), which is dominated by
homosexual activists, publishes a huge document called the
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-R).
This manual is used by psychiatrists and other mental health workers
to define various mental illnesses. This is their list of 30 “sexual
orientations.” 1
The TVC list includes the three factors that are universally defined as
sexual orientations: bisexuality, heterosexuality and homosexuality. These three
are defined as:
4:Bisexuality: "The capacity to feel
erotic attraction toward, or to engage in sexual interaction with, both
males and females."
9. Heterosexuality: "the universal norm of
sexuality with those of the opposite sex."
10.Homosexual/Gay/Lesbian: "people who
form sexual relationships primarily or exclusively with members of their own
gender."
I was unable to find these definitions in the DSM-IV-TR. #9's definition
seems very strange. I doubt that there are many members of the APA who regard
heterosexuality as "the universal norm." #10's definition also looks
strange. The APA defines homosexuality in terms of feelings, not sexual
activity. As indicated in their essay "Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Issues,"
sexual orientation is defined in terms of attraction.
Seventeen additional urges and behaviors that the TVC considers to be "sexual orientations" appear to be taken from the
DISM-IV-RT chapter on Sexual and Gender Identity Disorders, Pages
535 to 582. These are not sexual orientations! They are a list of what
the APA calls "Paraphilias," which they define as being:
"...characterized by recurrent, intense sexual urges, fantasies, or
behaviors that involve unusual objects, activities, or situation and cause
clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or
other important areas of functioning."
The only disorder mentioned in the DISM-IV-RT that is related to sexual
orientation is listed as #302.9. "Sexual disorder not otherwise specified." item
3 is:
"Persistent and marked distress about sexual orientation."
That is, heterosexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality are not themselves
sexual disorders. However, a patient who is exhibiting a great deal of distress
about their sexual orientation is suffering from a disorder.
The TVC missed this one and did not include it .
Some of the paraphilias listed by the APA in DISM IV-TR and misnamed as sexual
orientations by the Traditional Values Coalition are:
3.Autogynephilia - the sexual
arousal of a man by his own perception of himself as a woman or dressed as a woman (Page 574)
6.Exhibitionism - the act of
exposing one’s genitals to an unwilling observer to obtain sexual gratification (Page 569)
7.Fetishism/Sexual Fetishism -
obtaining sexual excitement primarily or exclusively from an inanimate object or
a particular part of the body (Page 570)
17.Partialism - A fetish in
which a person is sexually attracted to a specific body part exclusive of the person (Page 576)
18.Pedophilia - Sexual activity
with a prepubescent child (generally age 13 years or younger) ... . (Page 571)
22.Telephone Scatalogia -
sexual arousal associated with making or receiving obscene phone calls (Page 576)
27.Transvestic Fetishism -
intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors involving cross-dressing (Page 575)
Zoophilia/Bestiality -
engaging in sexual activity with animals (Page 576)
Finally, they added ten behaviors that they also define as "sexual
orientations" including incest, prostitution, transgenderism, transexual, and
transvestite.
Concerned Women for America (CWA)
Robert Knight The CWA wrote:
"Springing from the psychological literature, 'sexual
orientation' is often taken to mean 'homosexuality.' Given that its
inclusion in policies is the singular work of the homosexual pressure
groups, that is a reasonable deduction. However, the two words constitute an
umbrella term for numerous sexual behaviors, including paraphilias, which
are sexual disorders. According to the therapeutic manual of the American
Psychiatric Association, there are at least 20 distinctive sexual variations
of 'sexual orientation,' and perhaps many more."
"A partial list of 'sexual orientations' from the
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition,
published by the American Psychiatric Association, are included in an
appendix. Heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality are routinely
included in broad legal definitions of 'sexual orientation.' A fourth
'sexual orientation,' transgenderism, is beginning to be included in such
descriptions. Other categories consist of paraphilias, which are defined as
sexual disorders." 4
By combining:
The three generally accepted sexual orientations and
Paraphilias (sexual disorders), and
A bunch of other behaviors
and defining them all as valid sexual orientations, one ends up
with about 30 sexual "orientations" as in the TVC list.
References used:
The following information sources were used to prepare and update the above
essay. The hyperlinks are not necessarily still active today.
Rev. Lou Sheldon, "What is a 'Sexual Orientation'," News release,
Traditional Values Coalition, 2007-JUN-04.