Marriages & family forms: opposite
and same-sex, in ancient times and now
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Quotations:
"God's authentic plan [for the family was founded on] the stable
and faithful union of a man and a woman." Pope John Paul II, in a
speech on 2003-JUN to an audience in Croatia.
"If marriage means everything, it means absolutely
nothing." Dr. James C. Dobson, of Focus on the Family.
"I regard the blessing of gay or lesbian couples by the church
to be inevitable, right, and a positive good." 1 Retired Episcopal Bishop John Spong.
An exchange on an Amazon.com Christian forum:
John D. Wagner says: "I just support the Biblical view of marriage".
Analyst responded: "Really?
One man, and as many wives, concubines, and sex slaves (of either sex and
any age) as you can afford? You support that do you?"
Marriage -- now:
There are a relatively few types of families in Christian countries
today. Essentially all are one of the four following types:
Living together arrangements of heterosexual and homosexual
couples: These are common-law, informal co-habiting arrangements,
which can sometimes be registered with the government. Most North American heterosexual
couples who eventually marry, have spent an interval of time living
together before marriage. Some choose to never marry.
Heterosexual marriages of one man and one woman. These are
formal marriages registered with the government. Many are performed in a
church, synagogue, mosque, temple, etc. Others are civil ceremonies.
Polygynous marriages, which involve one man and a number of
women. In North America this was practiced extensively among Mormons, but
was largely phased out during the 19th century. Today, it appears to be
confined to small Fundamentalist Mormon groups which have been excommunicated
by the
main Mormon church: the Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints. The Attorney General of British Columbia, Canada,
has decided to not prosecute Mormon splinter groups in that province for
polygyny. He predicted that he would lose any case that he initiated. The
Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms' guarantees of religious
freedom would probably nullify the Province's marriage act in these cases.
This gives such marriages a degree of legality, at least in one province
of Canada. Tens of thousands of polygynous couples live in Utah, Arizona and
other states where their illegal marraiges are largely ignored by police.
Same-sex marriages and unions of two men or two women. As of
2008-NOV, same-sex
couples can marry in Belgium, Canada, Connecticut, Massachusetts, the Netherlands, South Africa, and
Spain; California is in a state of flux. They receive all of the advantages of marriages that in the past have
been restricted to opposite-sex couples. Residents of Israel can get married
elsewhere, return to Israel and have their marriages registered. The Knesset
is attempting to close this loophole. Numerous countries in Europe and some states in the
U.S. (New Hampshire, Oregon and Vermont) allow same-sex couples to enter into civil unions, domestic partnerships, etc. and
obtain most or all of the state marriage benefits. However they receive no
federal government benefits.
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