Introduction to plural marriage:
polygamy, polygyny & polyandry
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Overview:
All known cultures have established some type of marriage ritual. A major
reason has been to provide a stable family structure for the upbringing of
children.
Marriage has been an amazingly flexible institution. It is, and has been, in a continuous state of flux.
During various eras and
within various societies, marriage has generally permitted opposite-sex adult
couples of the same religion, culture, and race to marry. But it has often
prohibited couples from marrying who are:
Are of a certain race,
Are of different races,
Are of the same-sex,
Too closely related, and
Include one or more individuals who are of insufficient age.
In the United States:
African-Americans were not permitted to marry in some states until the end
of the Civil War.
Inter-racial couples were not permitted to marry in some states until a
U.S. Supreme Court decision in 1967 overturned all 16 of the country's remaining miscegenation laws.
Same-sex couples were not permitted to marry until the Supreme Judicial
Court in Massachusetts ordered the state to issue marriage licenses
to same-sex couples starting on 2004-MAY-17.
This series of essays deals with families which
include more than two
spouses. In the U.S. and Canada, most marriages are between two persons --
generally one woman and one man. However polygamous marriages (a.k.a. plural
marriages) do exist, and are not actively prosecuted by some state and
provincial governments -- notably Utah in the U.S. and British Columbia in
Canada. However, no political jurisdiction in North America formally registers
polygamous marriages.
By far the most common type of plural marriages are polygynous in nature;
they consist of one man and multiple wives. Polyandrous marriages, consisting of
one woman and multiple husbands, are rare.
Almost all polygamous marriages in North America fall into one of two
categories:
Patriarchal structure: These are typically polygynous families
who follow a conservative Christian belief system. They believe that
marriage should be complementary with the husband and wives holding
different, strictly defined roles. The husband is to love his wives and have authority over
them. The wives are expected to submit to their husband's instructions.
The vast majority -- perhaps totaling 30,000 to 50,000 individuals -- follow
one of the Fundamentalist Mormon denominations which have been
excommunicated from the main denomination: The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints (LDS). There are also non-Mormon polygamous Christian sects and families who call
themselves "Christian polygamists."
Egalitarian structure: These are typically formed by followers of
mainline or liberal Christian denominations, Wiccans, other Neopagans, or
secularists. They believe that men and women should be free to enter plural
marriages of any type: polygynous, polyandrous, or group marriage, where
they are free to negotiate their individual roles and responsibilities. The "Liberated Christians" movement in Phoenix, AZ
advocates voluntary polygyny (either polygyny and polyandry) and the
equality of the sexes. 1
In addition, polygyny is found among some Muslim immigrants:In Islam, Sharia law
permits a man to marry up to four wives. However, he must meet a strict
requirement: he must treat all wives equally. Upon immigrating to North
America or Europe his family structure comes in conflict with national laws.
Western countries are faced with the phenomenon of Muslim men visiting their
country of origin on vacation and returning with an additional wife.
According to the Brussels Journal:
"The Islamic Cultural Center Norway (ICCN), an immigrant organisation
subsidised by the Norwegian state, advises Muslims in Norway to take
several wives because polygamy 'is advantageous and ought to be
practiced where conditions lend themselves to such practice'....Muslim
immigrants who come to live in Europe often bring along their extended
families, which may contain two, three and even four wives, and all of
their offspring. Such families average up to 15 people, which means that
up to half a million of France’s 60 million inhabitants, a significant
section of the entire population, may be living in polygamous families.
There are also hundreds of polygamous families in Britain, Germany, the
Netherlands and other countries." 2
Some countries, like Norway and Britain, are making allowances for the
additional wives. In the U.S., polygyny is a criminal offense and open to
prosecution in all areas of the country, except perhaps in Utah where the
state has a history of condoning polygyny, as long as the spouses are not
too open about it. In British Columbia, Canada, where members of a
fundamentalist Mormon sect have openly practiced polygyny for decades, there
is a near consensus by constitutional experts that the federal law
restricting marriage to two persons is probably unconstitutional. The
freedom of religion clauses in the Charter of Rights and Freedom --
Canada's constitution -- are viewed as permitting polygamous relationships
if they are religiously-based. More information on the
legal status of polygamy in various countries