REDUCING BULLYING, TEASING,
AND REJECTION IN SCHOOLS
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Overview:
Some instances of school shootings are triggered by a student's
mental illness. Others are triggered by some prior action by school officials --
typically corporal punishment or suspension. But one positive result of the
Columbine tragedy in Littleton CO was an increasing appreciation of the role of
bullying on school violence. Many offenders have been bullied, rejected,
denigrated by fellow students for many years until the student snaps, and
commits a violent act in retaliation. As one public school student in New York
City said: "If you're bullied so much, one of those days you'll just pop."
About bullying:
According to a 1999 article by CNN, most of the school shootings
in the U.S. over the previous three years were by boys who said that they had
been teased or rejected by others.
Merle Froschl, co-founder of Educational Equity Concepts,
which developed the "Quit It" curriculum, said: "We feel it's just as
important for children to learn how to respect each other as it is for them
to read and write." 2
Marla Brassard, Associate Professor of Psychology and
Education at Columbia University said: "It's more hurtful than being hit
or pushed. Those wounds heal. But really mean things that people say to you
stay with you."
Bob O'Brien, principal at New York City's P.S. 75, said: "We
know these students have felt excluded. And if we know those things can
happen and we know they're avoidable, why would we not do everything we can
to prevent other kids from having that experience?"
Kathy Noll works with a number of TV programs who are
preparing episodes that deal with bullying. She said: "In a recent study,
77% of the students said they were bullied. 14% of those said they
experienced severe (bad) reactions to the abuse." 3
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Anti-bullying resources:
Bullying.org "Where you are NOT alone!" is a web site
to which students can contribute their own "...stories, poems, drawings,
music and videos with others from around the world." See:
http://www.bullying.org/
Bill Belsey "CyberBullying.ca" is a web site devoted to
cyberbullying: -- "the use of information and communication technologies such
as e-mail, cell phone and pager text messages, instant messaging, defamatory
personal Web sites, and defamatory online personal polling Web sites, to support
deliberate, repeated, and hostile behaviour by an individual or group, that is
intended to harm others." See:
http://cyberbullying.ca/
HasMarketing.ca sells a magnetic memo board in quantities
of 500 up containing "The Pledge" -- "an empowering statement that
contains phrases like 'I know sticking up for someone is the right thing to do'
and 'I won't stand by; I will stand up'." See:
http://www.hasmarketing.ca
Lynne Namka, "Why Did Johnny Kill? School Violence Explained. The Dynamics of Rejection, Isolation, Bullying, Shame, Anger and
Acting Out in Rage in Children," at: http://www.angriesout.com/
Stage Kids - The Edu-tainment Company provide scripts on bullying and harassment that can be performed by schools and other
groups. They provide: "An original script with directorial and staging notes; a CD with instrumental and vocal tracks for rehearsal and
performances; and a study guide for use as resource material to initiate discussions. They can provide lead sheets and directorial videos at an
additional cost. See: http://www.stagekids.com/
Empowered Student Partnerships(ESP) a student-led program,
empowering youth to identify safety concerns in their schools and
communities and challenges them to create a year long campaign to address
these concerns.
As part of their Quit It! program, the Education Equity Center
sells a teachers guide, and companion CD's dealing with teasing and bullying for
use in grades K-3. See:
http://www.edequity.org/