Human sexuality topics
Transgender persons and transsexuals:
Their beliefs about gender identity.
What is the cause(s)
of their belief?
Are they just confused?
News about equality and civil rights.
The term "LGBT" is an acronym for "Lesbians,
transgender persons/Transsexuals. Sometimes, additional letters
added, like "Q" for Queer or questioning, "I" for Intersexual.
Note about terminology:
Prior to 2012, the terms "Gender Identity Disorder" and "GID" were
the internal conflict experienced by transgender
and transsexual persons. This term has since
stigmatizing because of the presence of the
The new, generally accepted term is
"Dysphoria" is a
that means: "a state
dissatisfaction with life."
A brief overview abut what being "transgender" or "transsexual" is all about:
As is usual with matters related to human sexuality, two main, opposing, and incompatible belief systems exist:
- Belief of most members of the medical community, religious liberals, secularists, and the Lesbian, Gay. Bisexual, Transgender and Transsexual (LGBT) community:
A gender identity counselor explained the term "transgender" to Elsa, a 9-year-old from Boulder, CO. Elsa had been assigned a male gender on her birth certificate but started to identify herself as female as soon as she could speak. The counselor said:
"You are talking about how you feel inside. Others are talking about your body. Those are two different things."
In essence, being transgender involves a relatively rare conflict between a person's current gender identity -- what they sincerely believe their gender to be -- and their birth identified gender -- the gender placed on their birth certificate shortly after they were born. The conflict has a simple cause:
- A baby's gender is typically identified by medical personnel by observing the shape of the newborn's genital organs. They usually come in one of two easilly identified shapes, female or male. This gender is later recorded on their birth certificate.
- The gender that the child believes that they are later in life is determined by two structures inside their brain which take on one of two designs: female or male. In rare cases, the design is different from the newborn's gender as it was identified at birth.
- Many transgender persons explain their situation as being a female trapped in a male's body, or vice-versa.
- A minority identify themselves as not fitting into either gender.
Most liberals, human sexuality researchers, etc. note that the cure rate for transgender persons through counseling, therapy, prayer, etc. has been zero or essentially zero. They refer to a transgender person as a her or he, female or male, according to their current gender identity.
- Definitions used by many religious conservatives and some others:
They note that the Book of Genesis in the Hebrew Scriptures (a.k.a. Old Testament) describe how God created Adam as a male and Eve as a female. Many conservatives feel that God restricted each gender to specific roles in the family, faith group, government, and other areas of life. They may feel threatened by thoughts of a newborn being created by God as being of one gender and then having that person change gender later in life. Many conservatives refer to transgender persons as being "gender confused." They see a transgender person's as having their gender identified at birth and remaining fixed throughout life. In 2016, this belief motivated some Republican legislators in North Carolina to create a "bathroom bill" that restricts everyone to only enter the public washroom associated with the gender on their birth certificate. Similar bills have been intoduced in other states.
Many conservatives believe that transgender persons can clear up their confusion through counseling and therapy. They refer to a transgender person as a he or her, male or female according to their birth-identified gender.
The vast majority of adults, perhaps 99.7%, have no such conflict; they are referred to as cisgender.,
Topics covered in this section:
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The following information sources were used to prepare and update the above
essay. The hyperlinks are not necessarily still active today.
Zachary Green, "Transforming History: Transgender issues today are rooted in a decades-long struggle for inclusion," RetroReport/New York Times, 2015-JUN-15, at: http://www.nytimes.com/
"My authentic life," Transgender Law Center, 2014-MAY-01, at: https://www.youtube.com/ The first video has been watched by about 120,000 viewers during its first year online at YouTube.
Tom Murray produced and directed a video concerning transsexuality. It
is titled: "Almost Myself: Reflections on mending and transcending
gender." See: http://www.almostmyself.com/
Jennifer Brown, "Elsa's Story: Family learns to let girl live as 'truegender'," Denver Post, 2015-JUL-17, at: http://extras.denverpost.com/
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Original posting: 2007-JUN-08
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Author: B.A. Robinson